If only we could be faithful to what we have already become;
shedding labels that insist on limitation; embracing
dreams that dredge up the past as “loving acceptances”:
If only we could have met that other part of ourselves before
being sworn into this pre-assigned role of guilt and regret…
determined to grow into Definite Somebodies, “lest we forget”!
Like a mistaken identity pinned to our absence at Family Reunions
by self-righteous relatives, we are a recurring nightmare faithfully
showing up at each confusion with a checkbook and pen…
--Carol Adler, from Chaconne, copyright, 2016